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Spill the Tea Marriage & Family Therapy
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Growth is no longer returning to those who harmed you hoping they will heal you

My Therapy Style...

I am direct, in a gentle way haha! I will not hesitate to shoot you straight. I firmly believe in getting what you pay for, so I will not waste anyone’s time and call it like I see it. I’ve been told I am kind-hearted, warm, attentive, motivating, intuitive, and funny! Think warm mom vibe mixed with ride or die best friend. There are so many things that can feel hard and awkward about therapy, but I promise, I do my best to make this a valuable experience.

Chrissy Barlahan

...Approach to Treatment 

I work from an Emotion Focused perspective. This guides a lot of my couples work because it focuses on learning to communicate with one another in a way that provides comfort and security. It uses attachment theory to navigate how mom, dad, or caretaker have played a role in shaping you and your relationship with others. I have extensive training in this area and have seen the success couples have had using this model

Background & Education... 

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I hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from California State University, Long Beach. From there, I went into the field of behavioral therapy. I spent 7+ years working directly with children with Autism and their families as a Board Certified Assistant Behavior Analyst. This just means that the board recognizes that I am skilled and specialized in working with this population. 

 

I have a Master of Arts degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Capella University and have spent 4 years working as a therapist treating couples and individual adults. 

In total, I have spent more than 10+ years working in the mental health field and have a wealth of knowledge to share! 

**Just don’t ask me about kids and sleep. Can’t help you. Our kids sleep in our room and we can’t get them out. Send help.**

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My Real Life...

Wild Child (me)

Wild Child (me)

Mom in the Trenches

Mom in the Trenches

Married

Married 

Dachshund Lover

Dachshund Lover

“As long as you’re being your authentic self,

not being liked by certain people is literally a blessing.”

                                 -Marym Hasnaa 

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